21 31 year old dating

20-Mar-2015 03:54

Im 21 and im thinking about dating a 30 year old man.

For myself, when I am in a relationship, typically it's with a man younger than me (within a 10ish year range) so I agree with the majority of the responders when they say age is a number.

Life is too short - and you only get one of them - so enjoy it in every way it offers itself to you both. But I never see anything past what it is - an affair of sorts.

A person at 21 is in a different mind-frame then someone in their 30's... As we age, our experiences and growth change how we think and react to situations.

Janina You can always try to go slow and see where it leads. You can always still have kids with him or he can have a family with you and yours. So, in terms of being in different stages in life..again...he's the exception and probably more ready then most younger guys and even some older guys.. I hope things work out for you :)My dad's 41, he dated a 20 year old for about a year ( who I went to school with).... Then again, if I were to bring a 40 year old man to my father's for supper...father and uncle would be in jail, they would NOT approved.

I've known older guys who were really immature and players and younger guys who were one woman men , open, loving and giving. So how does it make it ok for him to go with a 20 year old? I was married for 21 yrs to a guy 16 yrs my junior - when he left I wondered if his favorite meal was financial security because he returned to bosom of family who are on their last but with massive nest egg that he wouldnt get if he stayed with me - they never approved!

For myself, when I am in a relationship, typically it's with a man younger than me (within a 10ish year range) so I agree with the majority of the responders when they say age is a number.Life is too short - and you only get one of them - so enjoy it in every way it offers itself to you both. But I never see anything past what it is - an affair of sorts.A person at 21 is in a different mind-frame then someone in their 30's... As we age, our experiences and growth change how we think and react to situations.Janina You can always try to go slow and see where it leads. You can always still have kids with him or he can have a family with you and yours. So, in terms of being in different stages in life..again...he's the exception and probably more ready then most younger guys and even some older guys.. I hope things work out for you :)My dad's 41, he dated a 20 year old for about a year ( who I went to school with).... Then again, if I were to bring a 40 year old man to my father's for supper...father and uncle would be in jail, they would NOT approved.I've known older guys who were really immature and players and younger guys who were one woman men , open, loving and giving. So how does it make it ok for him to go with a 20 year old? I was married for 21 yrs to a guy 16 yrs my junior - when he left I wondered if his favorite meal was financial security because he returned to bosom of family who are on their last but with massive nest egg that he wouldnt get if he stayed with me - they never approved!Court dates cuz of shoplifting, ambulance bills cuz she blacked out from drinking and got taken to the hospital. I dropped him like a sack of rotten potatoes and moved on. My closest friend is 35 and she's married to a 24 year.